Traditionally, fruit and flowers have always been go-to gifts for your fourth anniversary. By now, your marriage has blossomed, and it may also have been fruitful these past 4 years! A ripe gift, or fully blossomed flowers represents this stage in your marriage.
An appliance may seem like an odd gift. Many women aren’t too keen on being gifted a brand new washing machine or dishwasher. It reminds us of chores that MUST be done, and being gifted it must mean that it’s her job. I wouldn’t go there. Go with an appliance that makes cooking fun for the both of you-- like an InstantPot!